Oh gosh! What a serious title!
Perhaps what I would like to say is that, first of all, I have been married for 25 years and I think I know what love is.
Marriage has to start with love and love is the fuel that keeps the marriage going; without this basic feeling a marriage will be a dead one, or a broken one, a finished one.
Love is the base from which you build up the relationship; you need trust, honesty, communication and much more.
Love is of course lust, physical attraction, but a also a higher spiritual feeling.
Love in the pure physical form is raw, connected to Earth, simply carnal; this is our biology, the animalistic side of us, which in itself is basic. Sexual attraction is pure instinct and based on chemistry; the hormones take charge, the senses take over.
This is the Biological Love .
Love in the relationship as a partnership and friendship is the mental, psychological state which is a solid one and essential one for making the relationship work. The Soul Love. Quite often we refer to our partners as our soul mates.
Love in a fulfilling, true marriage is the combination of the two above plus the Spiritual Love: this is when we find bliss and a higher connection.
I am open to discussion and exchange of ideas, questions and open answers, with more questions.
I am not in the position to neither teach or guide anyone. I am just sharing, I am still exploring and learning.
Let's hear it from you now.
Perhaps what I would like to say is that, first of all, I have been married for 25 years and I think I know what love is.
Marriage has to start with love and love is the fuel that keeps the marriage going; without this basic feeling a marriage will be a dead one, or a broken one, a finished one.
Love is the base from which you build up the relationship; you need trust, honesty, communication and much more.
Love is of course lust, physical attraction, but a also a higher spiritual feeling.
Love in the pure physical form is raw, connected to Earth, simply carnal; this is our biology, the animalistic side of us, which in itself is basic. Sexual attraction is pure instinct and based on chemistry; the hormones take charge, the senses take over.
This is the Biological Love .
Love in the relationship as a partnership and friendship is the mental, psychological state which is a solid one and essential one for making the relationship work. The Soul Love. Quite often we refer to our partners as our soul mates.
Love in a fulfilling, true marriage is the combination of the two above plus the Spiritual Love: this is when we find bliss and a higher connection.
I am open to discussion and exchange of ideas, questions and open answers, with more questions.
I am not in the position to neither teach or guide anyone. I am just sharing, I am still exploring and learning.
Let's hear it from you now.